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#098 – Believe in Yourself

  • Writer: Tariq Khan
    Tariq Khan
  • Nov 19, 2025
  • 3 min read
#098 – Believe in Yourself
#098 – Believe in Yourself

Opening: “Belief is oxygen for the soul.” 

Closing line: “Once you believe, the world starts believing too.”


Believe in Yourself


If you don’t believe in yourself, why should anyone else believe in you?


Everything you are today — every choice, every step, every victory — started from one thing: your own belief.


You can trust people who don’t believe in themselves, but you can’t build anything with them until they learn to trust their own strength first.


I know what life becomes once that inner belief finally wakes up. 

Your confidence changes. 

Your posture changes. 

Your direction changes. 

Your entire existence becomes stronger from the inside out.


How Do You Know When You Truly Believe?


It’s confusing. You can say you believe in yourself… 

and still not believe 100%.


For years, I thought I believed in myself — 

but I was wrong.


There was always a little voice in the back of my mind whispering:


“What if you fail?” 

“What about this?” 

“What if people judge you?”


That small voice is the seed of disbelief, and it can erase all the confidence you show the world.


But here’s the truth most people never learn:


That little voice is not your enemy.


It can become your greatest ally — 

if you learn how to work with it.


I grew up mostly alone, so that inner voice became my friend, my teacher, my mentor. 

It gave me ideas and took ideas away. 

It made me laugh and made me cry. 

It protected me — and it trapped me.


Because most of its fears were not mine. 

They came from childhood. 

From parents who wanted safety. 

From teachers who didn’t understand curiosity. 

From an environment that taught me caution, not courage.


That little voice inside you? 

You didn’t create it. 

It was given to you.

But now it’s your job to transform it.


How to Change the Inner Voice


School never taught us confidence. 

Parents rarely taught us how to talk kindly to ourselves. 

Teachers didn’t have time to help us understand our mind.


So we grew up on survival thinking, not growth thinking.


Your inner voice changes only through one method:


Action.


Every time you take action in a place you’ve been told to avoid — 

you grow.

Every time you walk toward the unknown — 

you discover something new.

Every time you change a thought and act on it — 

your inner voice becomes stronger, wiser, more positive.


A child avoids action because of consequences. 

Adults avoid action because of fear. 

Both are created by conditioning —

not truth.


Ask any adult what they want from life — 

they can describe it perfectly. 

Then ask why they don’t act — 

you’ll hear excuses, not reasons:


“I don’t have time.” 

“I don’t know if I can afford it.” 

“I might fail.” 

“I don’t know how to start.”


But the real problem is simple:


They don’t believe in their own body as much as they believe their own fear.


You can change that voice. 

You can turn it into your strongest motivator. 

Just like your parents repeated fear into your mind, you can repeat belief into your soul.

Say it often enough, and your mind and body will start working together instead of fighting each other.


Because there is no danger anymore. 

No strangers. 

No monsters hiding in the corner. 

Only you —

and your potential.


You Can Change at Any Age


You can change at 20. 

You can change at 40. 

You can change at 60. 

You can change in one moment… 

if you let belief replace fear.


You can do what your role models did. 

You can do it better than those before you. 

Because you can learn from their mistakes and add your wisdom to theirs.


Life does not happen inside your head. 

Life happens in reality. 

And reality belongs to those who act on it.


Key Takeaway


If you don’t believe in yourself, 

no one else will.


But you can change that little voice from fear to belief one thought at a time.


It’s you — not others — who can transform your world. 

So do it before you sink into the dark.


Once you believe, the world starts believing too.


Tariq Khan







 
 
 

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